Lisa Hamme & Usman 'SojaBoy' Umar
Status last updated: February 22, 2026
Lisa and Usman married but later divorced. Their relationship was marked by conflict over Usman's music career and cultural differences. Usman went on to date and later marry Kimberly Menzies.
Where Are They Now?
Lisa Hamme
American
Lisa Hamme is an American woman from Pennsylvania who appeared on Before the 90 Days Season 4 with Nigerian musician Usman 'SojaBoy' Umar. Their age-gap relationship was controversial. They married but later divorced.
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Nigerian
Usman Umar, known by his stage name SojaBoy, is a Nigerian musician and rapper who first appeared on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Season 4 with Lisa Hamme and later with Kim Menzies in Season 5. Known for his music career and his search for love with American women, Usman appeared on The Single Life Season 2 following his relationship with Kim.
Relationship Timeline
Usman confirms he served Lisa divorce papers; she refuses to accept them
Usman 'SojaBoy' Umar told InTouch Weekly in December 2020 that he had served Lisa Hamme with divorce papers but she refused to accept them. Usman stated: 'Lisa and I are no longer together, she was served [papers] last week.' Usman had initially filed for divorce in July 2020. Lisa later married her new partner Tracey Robinson in April 2021.
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Personal News
Individual updates for each cast member outside the relationship.
Usman 'SojaBoy' Umar
Usman 'SojaBoy' Umar becomes Nigerian soap opera actor in series 'Yahoo Boy'
Usman 'SojaBoy' Umar expanded his career in 2024 by starring in the Nigerian soap opera 'Yahoo Boy,' produced by USB Entertainment, now in its second season. Usman also appeared in Nigerian TV commercials. His relationship with Kim Menzies ended, and a brief romance with Kiera Ogden also concluded.
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