Kim Menzies & Usman 'SojaBoy' Umar
Status last updated: February 22, 2026
Kim Menzies, a San Diego sales manager in her 50s, traveled to Nigeria to meet Usman 'SojaBoy' Umar on Before the 90 Days Season 5. Despite the significant age gap, Kim fell hard for Usman, while Usman's intentions were questioned — he was looking for a wife who could help finance his music career and possibly have children. The couple's relationship did not progress to marriage and they ultimately separated.
Where Are They Now?
Kim Menzies
American
Kim Menzies is a San Diego-based sales manager who appeared on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Season 5 with Nigerian musician Usman 'SojaBoy' Umar. The couple's relationship faced challenges due to the significant age gap and cultural differences. After their relationship ran its course, Kim appeared on The Single Life Season 2.
Usman 'SojaBoy' Umar
Nigerian
Usman Umar, known by his stage name SojaBoy, is a Nigerian musician and rapper who first appeared on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Season 4 with Lisa Hamme and later with Kim Menzies in Season 5. Known for his music career and his search for love with American women, Usman appeared on The Single Life Season 2 following his relationship with Kim.
Relationship Timeline
Kim and Usman separated after Season 5; both have moved on
Kim Menzies and Usman Umar appeared on Before the 90 Days Season 5, where Kim traveled to Nigeria to meet Usman. Their relationship faced scrutiny over their age gap and Usman's desire for children. The couple did not marry and have since separated. Kim later appeared on The Single Life. Usman continues his music career.
Personal News
Individual updates for each cast member outside the relationship.
Kim Menzies
Kim Menzies becomes first-time homeowner and lands new spa supervisor job after Usman split
Following her split from Usman 'Sojaboy' Umar, Kim Menzies achieved major milestones including purchasing her first home and landing a new position as Hotel and Retail Supervisor at Spa Ritual at Sycuan Casino Resort in El Cajon, California. She also underwent a major weight loss transformation. By September 2024 she revealed she was casually dating someone new from San Diego.
Screen Rant ↗milestone
Usman 'SojaBoy' Umar
Usman 'SojaBoy' Umar becomes Nigerian soap opera actor in series 'Yahoo Boy'
Usman 'SojaBoy' Umar expanded his career in 2024 by starring in the Nigerian soap opera 'Yahoo Boy,' produced by USB Entertainment, now in its second season. Usman also appeared in Nigerian TV commercials. His relationship with Kim Menzies ended, and a brief romance with Kiera Ogden also concluded.
Soap Opera Spy ↗career