Darcey Silva & Jesse Meester
Status last updated: February 22, 2026
Darcey Silva and Jesse Meester had a volatile on-and-off relationship across two seasons of Before the 90 Days. They split definitively after Season 2. Jesse moved on and has pursued a modeling and fitness career. Darcey went on to appear on Before the 90 Days Season 3 with Tom Brooks, then starred in the spin-off Darcey & Stacey.
Where Are They Now?
Darcey Silva
American
Darcey Silva is an American reality TV personality from Connecticut who became one of the most recognizable faces in the 90 Day Fiancé franchise. She appeared on Before the 90 Days Seasons 1 and 2 with Jesse Meester, then on Season 4 with Tom Brooks. She later starred in the spinoff Darcey & Stacey with her twin sister Stacey Silva, where she got engaged to Bulgarian Georgi Rusev before they ultimately separated.
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Dutch
Jesse Meester is a Dutch model and personal trainer from Amsterdam who appeared on Before the 90 Days Seasons 1 and 2 with American Darcey Silva. Their age gap relationship was volatile and became one of the most memorable in franchise history. Jesse has since pursued modeling and entrepreneurship.
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Darcey and Jesse's breakup airs in September 2018 season finale
Darcey Silva and Jesse Meester's explosive breakup aired on September 10, 2018 in the episode 'Just A Try.' The split came after Jesse visited Darcey in Connecticut and their relationship deteriorated. Jesse later alleged Darcey sent erratic post-breakup messages and claimed she 'stalked' him. The split was permanent, with Darcey moving on to Tom Brooks and later starring in Darcey & Stacey.
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Personal News
Individual updates for each cast member outside the relationship.
Darcey Silva
Darcey Silva posts cryptic 'Get away from G' message hinting at split from Georgi Rusev
Darcey Silva sparked widespread split speculation in April 2025 when she posted an Instagram selfie captioned 'God told me! Get away from G!' — widely interpreted as a reference to husband Georgi Rusev. The couple had been struggling publicly on Happily Ever After? with conflicts over Georgi's desire for biological children and financial disputes.
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Jesse Meester
Jesse Meester Welcomes First Child, Son Zeus, With New Girlfriend Marian Quesada
Jesse Meester and his girlfriend Marian Quesada welcomed their first child, a son named Zeus, in April 2024. The couple lives together in Marbella, Spain, where Marian works at Jesse's real estate company, Meester Estate. Jesse has stepped back from reality TV to focus on fatherhood and his business ventures.
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