Brandan Gardner & Mary Josephine Poster
Status last updated: February 22, 2026
Brandan and Mary married and remained together after appearing on The Other Way Season 5. They met online and faced significant obstacles due to their age gap and the jealousy and controlling behavior displayed during filming.
Relationship Timeline
Brandan and Mary appeared on The Other Way Season 5
Brandan Gardner and Mary Josephine Poster appeared on 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way Season 5 in 2023. Brandan, an American, moved to the Philippines to be with Mary. Their relationship attracted attention due to Brandan's jealous and controlling behavior on-screen. The couple married and have remained together.
Personal News
Individual updates for each cast member outside the relationship.
Brandan Gardner
Brandan DeNuccio admits wife Mary self-diagnosed colon cancer via TikTok; fundraiser shut down
In February 2024, 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way's Brandan DeNuccio launched a fundraiser claiming his wife Mary needed colon cancer surgery, raising over $1,300. The fundraiser was shut down after Brandan admitted Mary had self-diagnosed by watching TikTok videos without receiving an official medical diagnosis. Mary apologized publicly, saying she panicked after a doctor mentioned a colon issue.
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